Services


Lavender Seniors offers a variety of services.

  •  Friendly Visitors: Do you know of any lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender senior who is isolated, bedridden, or confined in their own home or a hospital, or in a nursing, board and care, or retirement home, and would benefit from having regular contact with a trained friendly visitor? When appropriate, assistance with shopping errands can also be provided. Our Care Coordinator will visit the person, assess her or his needs, and match the participant with an appropriate volunteer.
     

  •  Telephone Support: We have volunteers who keep in touch by phone with anyone who would welcome a call from us. Whether or not you attend any of our potlucks or other meetings, we’d like to stay in contact with you. At our age, illness, accidents, the death or illness of loved ones can isolate and depress any one of us at any time. We want to support each other especially in our times of need.

  •  Speakers Panel (Cultural Competency Training): If you are part of any agency or organization that offers social, health, or other services to seniors, and you think your organization could benefit from learning more about the special needs of the LGBT senior population, please contact us. Our Speakers Panel includes both men and women from Lavender Seniors. We tell our personal stories, our actual experiences, so others can come to better understand, respect, and respond to our needs. We also offer practical suggestions on how to make your services more accessible to those of us who may need them.
     

  •  LGBT Senior Awareness: Lavender Seniors encourages the mainstream community to become more knowledgeable and more sensitive to the needs of the many LGBT seniors who reside in the East Bay which we estimate at between 20,000 and 30,000. We do this both through our Speaker’s Panel and also through our involvement in the many groups that plan, fund and provide services to seniors. Included in those groups are the City of Oakland Aging Commission, the Alameda County Area Agency on Aging Advisory Commission on Aging, the Contra Costa County Area Agency on Aging, the Tri-City Elder’s Coalition and the Senior Services Coalition of Alameda County. We firmly believe in collaborating with these groups to help them to provide more LGBT friendly services to the LGBT senior community.

    A study published in April 2003 in The Gerontologist found that, due to life-long experiences of marginalization and oppression, “the possibility of one day having to be reliant on the health care system, on a nursing home facility, or any other social institution understandably provokes anxiety and fear in aging lesbians and gay men. Consequently, many may avoid accessing services altogether, even when their health, safety, and security depend on it.

    While isolation provided some protection in earlier times, it becomes a serious threat when an LGBT senior grows frail, vulnerable, and in need of health and related services. The survival skill of remaining hidden, though necessary in the past, is now placing the health and well being of many in the older LGBT population at high risk. LGBT seniors face many challenges as they age as heterosexual people do. What makes it different for LGBT seniors and makes their lives more difficult is the stigma and discrimination attached to non-heterosexual identity.

    It is critical that providers and the population at large become aware of the three major difficulties for LGBT seniors:

    •  Economic Insecurity due to federal laws based on laws for the heterosexual population
       and not inclusive LGBT people.
    • Unequal health care due to LGBT isolated lifestyles (due to their reaction to historical discrimination), lack of LGBT-friendly providers, and the resulting untreated medical needs.
    • Virtual non-existence of LGBT-friendly elder housing.

    Lavender Seniors will continue to work to improve mainstream sensitivities to the LGBT aging community.
     

  •  Monthly Informative Social Gatherings  – Lavender Seniors holds three monthly lunches each month to help LGBT seniors create informal social networks and gain important information about aging as LGBT seniors; program topics are listed on the schedule in the current edition of Lavender Notes.

    Lunch Bunch: The City of Oakland co-hosts Lunch Bunch at the North Oakland Senior Center, 5714 Martin Luther King Jr. Way, Oakland on the third Friday of each month from 12:30 to 2:30 p.m. Catered Lunch is funded by the City of Oakland. The Center is located off 58th Street; Entrance and Free Parking Lot in Rear. Monthly Programs to be announced in our newsletter and on page of this Website. Drop-ins are welcome!


    Potluck: Lavender Seniors Potluck is held at the site of our offices at 1395 Bancroft Ave., San Leandro, on the second Saturday of the month from 12 to 2 p.m.  Look for appropriate food to bring on the last page of the current edition of our newsletter, Lavender Notes and here on this Website.

    TalkAbout:
     The South County Lunch and TalkAbout is co-hosted by the City of Fremont Human Services Dept. and held on the fourth Friday of each month from 12 to 2 p.m.  It is located at the Fremont Senior Center 40086 Paseo Padre Pkwy, Fremont. Hot Lunch, cooked onsite, is now funded by the City of Fremont. Drop-ins are Welcome!
  •  Information and Referral: If you have social service or health needs or problems and don’t know who or where to call, call our office. We will do our best to put you in contact with the most appropriate agency or service.
     

  •  Special Projects: 


1) The Lavender Scrolls Project, funded by the California Stories Fund of the California Council for the Humanities, will collect the images and stories from eight LGBT elders in our community and present them visually and orally to all Californians as a way to give voice to this often silenced population. The project will also create a community dialogue about the importance of the lives of these LGBT people at our culminating Community Discussion in June 2007. Contact Leslie Bonett for more information: 510.667.9655; or email outreach@lavenderseniors.org
 
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LGBT Elder-Friendly Project, identifying LGBT and mainstream agencies that demonstrate that they welcome and understand the needs of LGBT elders. For information, click details below our emblem, at right.

 

 

 

 

 

 
 

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For any of these services, please contact us at (510) 667-9655,
email us
at director@lavenderseniors.org or see the
staff list for how to reach them.

If you are interested in volunteering your time, or if you know of any LGBT senior who might be in need of our services, please look here for further information.

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